5 Things Not To Say During An Interview

first_imgEveryone knows how to act on a job interview right? Think again. Even seasoned professionals make mistakes during in-person interviews.  Coming to an interview late or ill prepared are two obvious show stoppers, but even seemingly innocent comments can hurt your chances of landing the job.“Overall people have gotten a little savvier but it’s amazing how even tenured people will make comments they wish they hadn’t,” says Janet Elkin, chief executive of Supplemental Healthcare, the healthcare staffing company.From oversharing to trying too hard to be witty, here are five sayings that will kill your chances of getting a follow up interview:1. “I’m Always Looking”Everyone knows millennial workers are more likely to switch jobs at a faster pace than their older counterparts, but nothing can hurt millennials or any job seekers from landing a position then letting the hiring manager know they are always looking for the next opportunity.“One of the things you don’t find these days is loyalty,” says Jeffrey Agranoff, principal at accounting firm Friedman LLP. “You really want the candidate to differentiate and its so uncommon for a candidate to be ‘loyal’ it  becomes a differentiator.” He says the “always looking” comment comes up often during high level executive searches and is surefire way to turn hiring managers off, because what is going to stop you from moving to the next opportunity a mere six months later?2. “I’m not working over forty hours a week” Nobody wants to work sixty hours a week, but it’s not the type of question you should be asking the minute you sit down to an interview. Yet it happens all the time, says Elkin.  Of course you want to make sure the job works with your outside obligations but you should first learn about the company and make a good impression before you start lodging work/life balance questions the interviewer’s way. “No one wants to work 24 hours, but if you are going to say that to me right away, you are already saying you don’t want to work hard,” says Elkin. “The cardinal rule is always make the interviewer fall in love with you.”3. “I’m a cat, dog, fish person” You want your true self to come out during the interview, granted your true self is squeaky clean. If that’s not the case, which is likely with the majority of people, refrain from oversharing personal things, even the innocent ones. “It is patently unprofessional to reveal things about yourself that have nothing whatsoever to do with the job,” says Mark Jaffe, president of Wyatt & Jaffe, the executive search firm.. “Your potential employer only cares about what you can do for them they don’t care about your personal life.”  So refrain from showing off your pet cat or fish, or recanting scenes from the latest episode of Game of Thrones.4. “Sarcasm and humor is my middle name” Even the most interesting man in the world (yes the Dos Equis spokesman) knows when to keep the sarcasm and attempts at wit in check, yet many job candidates don’t.  During behavioral interviews candidates are asked to give examples of past performance, but often they use this opportunity to try and impress the interviewer with wild stories or try swaying the interviewer with their wit. “Don’t try to be funny, smart, cute or even sarcastic during an interview,” says Agranoff. “You want to connect, to smile, to have fun buts it’s not a comedy routine.”5. “I couldn’t stand my last boss”Even if you had the worse boss on the planet, you shouldn’t use your job interview as a venting session to bash your previous employer no matter how tempting it may be. According to Elkin, candidates who go on a rant about their previous boss during an interview are hurting their ability to get called back for a second interview, even if everything they said is accurate. “What I’m thinking when I hear that over and over again is that you are going to say the same thing about me one day,” she says. “Nobody really wants to hear that.”last_img read more

Travelling alone can be daunting especially if yo

first_imgTravelling alone can be daunting, especially if you normally travel with a friend or family member, but those who have made the journey believe it to be a life changing experience. With many benefits such as the chance to meet new people, try things you may not have been able to do with an unwilling travel companion and have control of your own itinerary, more and more seniors are including travelling solo in their retirement plans. Having faced fears you will return with a new found confidence. So what options do you have when it comes to solo travelling?Escorted ToursEscorted tours with small groups can be a great first step into solo-travelling. There are plenty of options available with providers such as Titan Travel who operate tours across the world. These include US National Parks, Route 66, India and China, by road, and rail. Generally the majority of travellers on these trips are singles so you won’t feel alone amongst couples, and as tours are created with solo travellers in mind you’re likely to avoid the dreaded single supplement. With a planned itinerary, optional tours and extras, a local tour guide and an ideal balance between freedom and peace of mind.CruisesAlternatively, a cruise offers a variety of options, from short 7 night Mediterranean cruises, to 3 month long around the world adventures. A typical cruise consists of a number of stops in key port cities where you can spend the day exploring the city of your own accord, onboard you will find lots of activities, group dining and lots of opportunities to socialise and relax between ports. Look out for cruises with single occupancy cabins, these are in short supply, and as they are an increasingly popular option for solo travellers they sell out fast. Research in advance and book as early as possible. Activity HolidaysIf you have a hobby or interest which isn’t shared by friends or family members an activity holiday can be a great way to immerse yourself into your hobby, travel and meet many others who share your interests. Like the escorted tours, activity holidays cater for solo travellers. Yoga, pilates, cooking, photography, walking and painting are just a few of the many activities offered from tour operators such as Destination Yoga, Flavours Holidays and Authentic Adventures. Cooking holidays are available in countries with distinct cuisines such as France and Italy – you will learn how to cook the popular dishes of the country using local produce and explore the regional wines to pair with your dish. As well as cooking lessons many trips offer free time for day trips into the local area. BackpackingBackpacking around the world, and the nomad lifestyle is popular amongst single travellers, especially in destinations such as Thailand, Australia and Vietnam. Backpacking offers the potential for long term travelling whilst sticking to a budget, an option for those looking to explore the world during their retirement. Although this is more popular with the gap year travellers and bloggers, more and more retirees are making the trip. If you’re not too keen on the idea of sharing rooms in hostels an alternative is house-sitting, a popular choice for those looking to stay in a particular area for more a few nights. If you’re planning on travelling through a variety of destinations, our multi-city flight search can assist. Read more: 10 best backpacking tips and tricksHave you travelled solo? Share your experiences with us in the comments below. RelatedAdventure Travel Around the WorldAdventure travel expert Catrionna Grant from Tucan Travel introduces the world’s top spots for exciting travel options50 insider travel tips & tricks: what we’ve learned about travellingFrom the philosophical to the funny, the serious to the silly, we present our list of learnings from travelling the world.Travelling Solo? Ask Skyscanner!Travelling Solo? Ask Skyscanner!last_img read more